Friday, April 29, 2011

10, 9, 8 … and you are no more Lonely and Bored...!!

Feeling bored and lonely? It is never so pleasant, when we think and sit a lot, we started feeling more lonely, bored and so cut off. But there are ways to get out of this feeling. I have some simple ways that are discussed here in this post.

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10. Explore your gadgets

You have laptop, cell, iPod, or an mp3 player to you and you never get enough time to explore it completely. Now when you are bored and feeling lonely, open it and play with it. I’m sure you’ll find so many new features, what you never aware before. Kill your time and get a training on your gadget. 

9. Cyber friends
Have some cyber friends? Enjoy with them, have some chats or maybe voice calls, speak a lot, laugh a lot, wander over the internet, maybe you’ll find something interesting too.

8. Read a book
Get a good and interesting book to read what you always planned to read when you have enough time. And if you don’t have such book at home when you are in state of boredom, go and get old magazines from your shelf and read them again. The missing information will let you know a lot what you skipped in past. 

7. Make a hangout plan
When you have enough time, call your friends and family and make some hangout plans. This will kill your time, help in killing your boredom and loneliness and make you feel happy with a reunion. 

6. Work on your hobby
Everyone of us have some hobby, it can be reading, writing, cooking, decorating, playing, etc. in normal routine life we never get enough time for them but whenever you are free enough and lonely and bored even, you have a fair chance to work on your hobby. Write all in a day, read all pending books, cook yummy dishes and make everyone praise you, play online games or outdoor whatever you like, go for some walk or exercise and feel fresh, change your room’s decoration and get a pleasant change in your life. 

5. Watch YouTube channels
This is another way to get out of loneliness and boredom. Subscribe for your favorite YouTube channels and visit them when you are bored to death. Watch annoying orange and laugh till death, watch RayWJ and curse on idiotic videos, watch old movies and dramas, Play some good music and dance with it, watch videos on facebook and enjoy having a good bandwidth internet connection.

4. Go artistic
This is not a everybody’s job actually, if you are a bit artistic, use it when you feel lonely and bored, this artistic can be in writing, in decorating, in make ups, in cooking, anywhere. Enjoy new experiences and have a great time going with your art.

3. Give time to family
Families always complain a lot for giving them not enough time when you are busy with your everyday life, but when you are bored and lonely and wants a company for you too, go to your parents and siblings and extended families and give them time, enjoy their company, this will make them happy too and this will make your time a lil better, if your family is not nut.

2. Clean your drawers
The best and the most effective way to kill your loneliness, is to start cleaning your drawers and cupboards. It will make your time passed so easily and you would for sure find your lost things even. Sometime some cards, some old gifts, your diaries, and some other old memories will make you recall your past and you will smile with them.

1. Pamper yourself
This is the easiest way out, and the only way which can work on 100%. Try to get you out of the feeling, make you busy somewhere or try to think the best part of your life. Think what you are dreaming and what you want to accomplish in life. Tell yourself your milestones and what you had already and what your near future plan is. If things are not working for you, cry a lil bit, pamper yourself again and be prepared for this tough life. 

I'm so bored of being bored, because being bored is so boring.
well honestly I tried them all and all are effective and working for me. Try them and tell me if they are working for you too.. tell me something I missed here. Tell me how you like it?

P.S I by chance opened my blogger and a big WOW come out of me, it's changed and looks so exciting, now i have two windows open to me , an old one and a new one .. I'm excited to explore it.

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Thursday, April 28, 2011

Happiness is the rarest Vintage...

Time comes and goes, people, time and circumstances changes a lot, sometime things make us happy and other times we are sad. Whatever the era is; time has to pass, the only thing we can keep saved to us all time is the memory about our past. It maybe sad or can be happy, and happy moments are rarest to find when we look back in our life. They say happiness is the rarest and most precious vintage.
This Friends Finding Friday, I’m sharing some moments of happiness that are left a smile on our face whenever we try to recall them, they always make us enjoy, and they hide a full life in them. I so love these images and I’m sure you awesome people would love to see them.

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Happiness is like butterfly, it alive until you want to hold it to you.
The most difficult task in whole week of my blog is to compose Friday’s post. I have to search a lot and think a lot, I have to find all awesome people who followed me during last week. But on the other hand it's so exciting. Seriously I love you all. I love the way you make me write more and liking me. People, these all Friends of this Friday are so awesome, who make my moral high and boost me up with their so encouraging comments and feedback are:

Please join them and me to find a way to heaven and enjoy more on my blog. 
and tell me that what makes you happy the most and do you believe that happiness is the rarest vintage?

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Wednesday, April 27, 2011

Stand for your Dreams and one day they will stand for You!!

Turn small dreams to big realities. [Source: tumblr]
There are loads of questions about our wishes and dreams daily come in our minds, I have a list of dreams and everyday wishes, but what are they exactly? Should I give up or keep on chasing them? What I’ll get out of life if I never found what I really dreamed and wished for? What will be the outcome of the dreams I’m struggling for?

I strongly believe that not these dreams exactly, but the thousands of self made assumptions and the questions we keep on asking ourselves tired us up. Dreams are the hope to move on in life, dreams are the beam of light in dark endless seashore. Dreams are like stars, far above our heads but if you struggle for them, we are always able to touch them. Dreams are the ways to follow that lead us to the correct path through our destiny. Dreams are the best support when your own shadow is not with you. Dreams are the idea of live a life.

All we need to struggle a bit for our dream and nothing is impossible to achieve. If we never chase our dream, we’ll never be able to catch them up. So the last advice is
Dream bigh, Stand for your Dreams and one day they will stand for you.

Stars are not the limit [Source: tumblr]

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Tuesday, April 26, 2011

Human Inside

He was always there with his big smiles and loads of balloons. We always enjoyed being with him, we giggled on his stupid acts by which he tried to amuse us and all other kids there in that park, where we used to visit every weekend. He was Uncle Mick for us, who was hired by that park to amuse and entertain the visitors, not only on weekends, I always found him there even on weekdays when I sometime visited there.  Being a bit mature kid among all our crew, one weekend I noticed Mick was not enthusiastic as he was used to be. I asked him, but he kept on playing with low energy, I kept on insisted and he removed his big Mickey face, with red crying eyes and said…
I’m a human inside.
 I stopped going to that park on weekends now but I know Uncle Mick is still smiling there and no one knows what’s burning inside him.

Sad Autumn Leave [Source: flicker]
Sad things and bad decisions make wicked stories.
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Monday, April 25, 2011

Whatever the taste of your coffee is, Love is sweet..

He met her on a party.  She was so exceptional, many guys chasing after her, while he was so normal, nobody paid attention to him. At the end of the party, he invited for coffee with him, she was hesitant, but due to being polite, she accepted.

They sat in a nice coffee shop, he was too nervous to say anything, she felt uncomfortable, she thought, please, let me go home. Suddenly he asked the waiter to bring salt for his coffee. Everybody stared at him, so strange! His face turned red, but, still, he put the salt in his coffee and drank it. She asked him strangely. Why you have this hobby? He replied: "when I was a little boy, I was living near the sea, I liked playing in the sea, and I could feel the taste of the sea, just like the taste of the salty coffee. Now every time I have the salty coffee, I always think of my childhood, think of my home town, I miss my home town so much, I miss my parents who are still living there". While saying that tears filled his eyes. She was deeply touched.

That's his true feeling, from the bottom of his heart. A man who can tell out his homesickness, he must be a man who loves home, cares about home, has responsibility of home. Then she also started to speak, spoke about her far away hometown, her childhood, her family. That was a really nice talk, also a beautiful beginning of their story.

They continued to date. She found that actually he was a man who meets all her demands; he had tolerance, was kind hearted, warm, careful. He was such a good person but she almost missed him! Thanks to his salty coffee!
Then the story was just like every beautiful love story, the princess married to the prince, and then they were living the happy life..
And, every time she made coffee for him, she put some salt in the coffee, as she knew that's the way he liked it. After 40 years, he passed away, left her a letter which said:" My dearest, please forgive me, forgive my whole life lie. This was the only lie I said to you---the salty coffee. Remember the first time we dated? I was so nervous at that time, actually I wanted some sugar, but I said salt it was hard for me to change so I just went ahead. I never thought that could be the start of our communication!

I tried to tell you the truth many times in my life, but I was too afraid to do that, as I have promised not to lie to you for anything. Now I'm dying, I afraid of nothing so I tell you the truth: I don't like the salty coffee, what a strange bad taste. But I have had the salty coffee for my whole life! Since I knew you, I never feel sorry for anything I do for you. Having you with me is my biggest happiness for my whole life. If I can live for the second time, still want to know you and have you for my whole life, even   though I have to drink the salty coffee again”. Her tears made the letter totally wet. 

[Whatever the taste of coffee is, love is sweet. 3yesha: image source: tumblr ]
Someday, someone asked her: what's the taste of salty coffee?  

It's sweet. She Replied.
It's so sweet but Its not at all my writing, I wish I write that sweet about Love, I wish and I'll  write. I will for sure when I'll be with you. This one I found on a forward mail long back, I saved it somewhere and I'm sharing it on the Tales of Tuesday 'cause I can relate it with the Sugarcane I wrote few months back. and I strongly believe that.

Whatever the taste of your coffee is, Love is sweet. 

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Sunday, April 24, 2011

My First Love Letter ..

Memories play a confusing role. They make you laugh when you remember the time you cried together! But make you cry when you remember the time you laughed together.
I still remember my first love letter, yea I mean a mail I sent to you 8 years back, when I was a teen. It was such a childish act what I did. I still have the copy saved to me.

I have a collection of Love Letters [Source: tumblr]

Hey yew !!

There was a time when your presence has no meaning, but truth is that it’s not same now; I think I am getting into you. Hope you are getting what I mean. It is very difficult to get a person like you with this idiotic stroke (like to mail or something) but maybe it would be very late if I wait for some good time in future, it is the best time to convey my feelings because I don't want to be sorry in future.. ‘cause I’m so sure you that I have the right person in front of me.

Yours !!

I know no one knows who are you, you are a real one or jus an imagination, but for me you exist, still in my memories, and I still feel same for you, it was left unspoken but I know and even you. I Love you.

My D drive is full of pictures, songs, letters and memories. I open it to recall my best pieces and writing posts on Mondays to revise a Memorable memory to make my boring Monday a Memorable one.

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Saturday, April 23, 2011

I'm nowhere .. Do you still miss me?

The other day, a cockroach was in my bathroom at 5 AM and I shouted and my mum sprayed to kill it on floor, next morning I asked my maid to clean it from there, but as I went there to show her, it wasn't there. There was not a dead insect in 6 hours. Ants there finished up a dead cockroach. It was jus an insect, I’m a human and I’ll have an end someday, I’m so worried about the end when I’ll be alone and then forgotten in  few days, in next 10 years there’ll be no one who would remember that there was an AishaW who ever blogged on 3yesh’s. I’m a human the best creature in universe created by Almighty but I’m not worth more than a cockroach or am I?

This piece I composed in start of Sep 2010, in Ramadan and I never posted it. These days I was feeling same, something made me think that when I wasn’t there, there would be no one who’ll care about me, who will think that where’s she. You know the worst feeling is not left alone, the worst feeling is you are forgotten, I'm feeling some people forget me. And I’m sure I’m over think as always.

The guy there was telling me to check my 300 followers on networked blog, 250+ people on google. Not jus followers and readers, even loads of friends who want me to stay; excluding the bunch of jealous ones of course. And even if I forget about the followers being a meanie as always, there is Me who always feel so happy when she type on her blog, when she watch loads of people leaving there love for her, and reading and appreciating her. Though I’m almost done with personal blogging [as I have a big private crying blog] but whatever I’m writing here on 3yesha, means life for me, and I’ll type here till my last breath, wherever I’ll be.

it leads me to over-thinking [Source: tumblr]
I’m sorry for putting my personal frustration out on my blog again and I love you guys to help me to sort things out. My answer is maybe I would be forgotten in some years when I’m no more here, but I have to live the time till I have a chance to and maybe it would help me to live forever in the form of my blog pages.

There’s nothing secret this Sunday but I so love the awesome people there, I’m here for me and for you of course. Big muwahs and for you all, a small gift. hehe I stole my part already.

Sprinkled Cake, Rainbow Treat [Source: tumblr] 

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Friday, April 22, 2011

10, 9, 8 … and this is She..

People make it so complicated and I'm again coming up with same statement that a girl is not a rubik cube, she's as simple as the following rules are. and before reading them, it's not my creation, but yea I edited them a bit. They were found on some viral picture over the internet. Enjoy.

10. She laughs harder when she tries to explain why she is laughing.

9. She tries to cook, from maggi to a head.

8. She lies a lot to hide her pains.

7. She cries for silly reasons all time.

6. She is not so strong as her smile seems to be ..

5. She gets attached to people who care even a little about her.

4. A broken nail scares her as much as a broken heart pain.

3. She says it's a Long story when it's actually not, and then she makes it long..

2. She falls in Love too easily and too fast and regrets later.

1. She takes time to move on but once she realizes it's time to move on, she never look back.

I was not feeling good with all what I'm watching and getting around, I so need a break. How about leaving blogging for some undefined time? I'm seriously thinking about it and I have jus another day to decide, they made me so confident about my decisions now, I can do  anything big now. so I'll come up with The Big Sunday Decision .. !! 

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Thursday, April 21, 2011

You are Godsend ..

We are all blessed by thousands of blessings; all we lack is an eye to see them. I always complain about my things; forgetting there are many people who are waiting for basic necessities of life. This Friday, I'm listing the few Godsends, I know there are infinite and I can't even imagine of typing all in one post, so very few I'm putting here, are:

Opportunity -to experience more.
Curiosity -to learn more.
Sunshine and Rains
Relationship with God
 Power of Imagination and Dreaming
For me, you are Godsend, a big blessing.

Fridays are always exciting and full of joy for me, ‘cause weekends are waiting ahead after them, and now I started loving Fridays more than anything ‘cause my weeks are getting tougher with every passing day. I complain a lot about busy weeks but I love being busy and stay out of my idiotic mind’s production. I love blogging but this is now getting on my nerves, one post per day ehh .. but this is a challenge and I love taking challenges. Like these days I challenged me [shhh to someone else] to learn a new technology in a week, I already wasted 4 days today but I’m so sure that I can and I will. Additionally; I love love love seeing your comments, share, tweets and hits on my blog. I’m too lazy and busy to reply you back for your comments this weekend.

Like every Friday, I have some awesome people on my blog. Guys please do visit them and follow them. And for my Friday’s Friends, I love you all, you people found a way to heaven. Big muwahs.
jenny grouse

Laptop Guru
Lorraine Grech
L.A. Sherman

So tell me what’s your godsend list? Plus do you like accepting challenges?
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